Wednesday, April 30, 2025

Week 96 - Miami, Oklahoma

Hey all!

Lots of content and not a lot of time. Into the news:

πŸ“˜ Our friend Robert told us he got his answer about the Book of Mormon and is going to join us for church this Sunday! His sister joined the Church in another town a while ago and he tried once to refer himself to the missionaries for a Book of Mormon, but he has a crazy work schedule they never got in contact. We happened to knock his door at just the right time when he was home and ever since then we've been able to meet about once a week to check in on his study of the Book of Mormon. This time, he told us when he read and prayed about it, he felt unusually calm and like what he was reading was "normal in a good way," and that the reason he makes time to meet with us is because he feels that way when we teach him the restored gospel. Sweet!

πŸ“… Our friend Dacyn accepted a baptism date for May 10th (my companion's birthday πŸ˜)

🌊 Shout out to the Anderson Missouri Elders! I checked the teaching records of some friends Elder Perry and I met there and I was pretty blown away haha. Not only had Kelsey been baptized, but three other friends we taught chose to join the Church too! God is good. 

πŸ₯” Some members of the congregation invited us and Marvin over for dinner and it made his day. He said it was the first time he'd eaten real mashed potatoes since his wife passed away. He's so perfect πŸ₯²

πŸŒπŸ–Ό The 13th International Art Competition for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is happening right now! You can view all of the submissions and vote for your two favorite works here:
Let me know which two you voted for and I'll tell you mine!

🚚 When someone we talk to on a doorstep tells us they're not interested, we often ask them if they know anyone who would benefit from our message or if there are any new move-ins in the neighborhood who might be looking for a new church. A lady directed us to a house where someone just moved in, and while we'd already knocked it and no one had answered, we felt prompted to mark it down on our map and try again another time. Imagine our surprise when, a couple of days later, we knocked their door again and a young dad named Sam came out and told us he just moved from Provo and used to be a member. He wasn't interested at the time, but he was super cool and I got the feeling he was more than likely a returned missionary by how well he treated us. I have no idea what'll come of us meeting, but it's yet another testament to me that the Lord will never forget His covenant children. 

Isaiah 49:15-16:
Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.

🎼Songs of the week:
"Julia" by Mt. Joy
"What Would You Say?" by Dave Matthews Band

Awesome speech from last General Conference: "Compensating Blessings" by Bishop GΓ©rald CaussΓ©

Love you all! 

Elder Rigby

Wednesday, April 23, 2025

Week 95 - Miami, Oklahoma

 πŸŽ΅ When those jaws open wide and there's more jaws inside, that's a moray (eel🎡


I tried so hard to come up with some kind of witty one-liner using the term "pharyngeal jaws" but I think I bit off more than I could chew. Lame human teeth. You win this time, morays.

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Hey all!

 Man, eels sure are weird. Anyways, missionary work. Marvin got baptized this week! His service was so special. As missionaries, we're called to find those who are looking for light and truth, teach them the restored gospel of Jesus Christ, and help them receive baptism by water and by the Spirit, but with how often we get moved around from area to area, being able to do all three with the same friend is a little more rare. Elder Larson and I are two lucky Elders to have met a man like Marvin. 

In other good news, our friend Kelsey from my last area just chose to be baptized as well! She's the young daughter of a friend who chose to join the Church of Jesus Christ while Elder Perry and I were in the area who had a little bit of decision anxiety over whether or not she wanted to be baptized just yet but overcame her fear of water to make a special promise with the Lord. Thanks to Kelsey's courage, she can now receive the full cleansing power of Jesus Christ's atoning sacrifice and always have the Holy Spirit to be with her. Go Kelsey!

Some other random things that happened this week included the third instance in my mission of 911 beating us to someone who referred themself to the missionaries through social media (one out of those three got baptized back in Fort Smith though so it's cool) and knocking the single most convoluted apartment building I've ever dared to step foot in. It was the Zelda water dungeon of all Zelda water dungeons: five stories of two ancient brick buildings that someone decided to combine way back when and didn't mind the fact that the floors of the two buildings weren't at the same heights so it was more like eight half-floors of apartments with at least fifteen different staircases spread throughout the narrow, winding, low-ceilinged hallways. It was super fun to knock, though, and we found a lost church member from Mexico and a young family that really wants to join us for church this week!

Thought: 1 Nephi 18:3
And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord; wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things.

 At Galatia's baptism and confirmation a couple of weeks ago, one of the speakers invited her to find a second copy of the Book of Mormon and dedicate it solely to highlighting as many references to the Holy Spirit as she could find. I was really struck by that invitation and decided to adopt it for myself, but instead of marking references to the Comforter, I felt guided to mark every instance of gratitude and praise given to God. Looking for things to be grateful for has been such a huge help in staying near the Savior and finding joy in the work. It's easy to focus on negative things - the weather heating up, the cumulative fatigue of twenty-two months of a demanding calling, or the fact that, despite it being for literally the single best reason possible, pushing into other people's lives to share the gospel of Christ with them is still very, very uncomfortable - putting in righteous work to deliberately seek the positive things in life has to me been a key channel for Christ's light to change my heart and transform my as a missionary from dutiful compliance to affectionate obedience. God loves you! You are His child. Ask the Savior to help you focus on these things and your request will make His day.

Love you all!
- Elder Rigby


(I promise he's happy)



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SezOrE0zRFo&authuser=0

Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Week 94: He's back, Ceb - Miami, Oklahoma

 πŸŽ΅ Come a little bit closer

Come a little bit closer, you're my kind of plant
So green and so small πŸŽ΅

 Hey all! Let's just jump right into it, shall we?

πŸͺ΄ Went to a plant swap at the library to try and meet some new friends who'd want to join us on Easter Sunday and I somehow won a raffle for a free plant and got a "pink panther" inchplant. Not sure who's gonna catch the PokΓ©mon reference but it's basically just the shiny version of the other inchplant I already have haha. But hey, it's got a good name. Speaking of good names, while we didn't end up finding anyone who wanted to join us for church, I brought some of my own lil leafy guys along just for kicks and ended up coming home with a flapjack, a bachelor button, a pencil cactus, four tiny dog tail cacti, and a "wandering dude." Peep the Google photos for the succulent garden: https://photos.app.goo.gl/2sk1refRidSszyYk7

πŸ• Twenty months ago, my trainer and I were able to be part of our friend Luis' baptism into the Church of Jesus Christ. Unfortunately, he had some pretty complicated life circumstances, and by the end of the year he'd moved and stopped attending church regularly. However, a few days ago day I hopped on Facebook messenger for one of the few times that whole week, and within the minute I planned to be on it, he saw my username and called me up saying that he really missed church and was wondering what he could do to get a temple reccomend again! Not only that, but he was back in Arkansas again in the area of the assistants to the mission president, both of whom are super cool. One of them is actually a Spanish missionary too! So many little random things came together to remind me that the Lord never forgets His covenant children. There's always a way back. 

🌊 Marvin's going to be baptized tomorrow! He gave us all his coffee stuff last week like it was no biggie, but we felt prompted to give him a bag of Beaver Nuggets from Bucees so it'd be a fair trade haha. Please pray for him and that his baptismal service will be powerful tomorrow!

πŸ₯΄ "Awkward for Jesus" - best description of missionary work I've heard yet

πŸ‘¬ One of my old comps and I reconciled this week and it was real cool. Sure feels good to be pals again. 

🏫🌊Our friend Galatia who we found at the college campus just got baptized in the Joplin YSA branch! She's the best. 

πŸ–Ό There's an exhibit up at the BYU Museum of Art featuring one of my favorite gospel artists, Brian Kershisnik. Unfortunately, it's over in about a month or so, so I won't get to see it in person, but if y'all are in the area then please go check it out for me! His work and his perspective on the Gospel are both so cool. So uh...postcard? πŸ˜³πŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ

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Thought: Matthew 25:40

And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Elder Kearon's General Conference message two weekends ago prompted me to really reconsider the simple ideas we hear over and over again. This one stood out to me. Consider what would happen if every one of our actions really was taken with these words of the Savior in mind? What simple, often-overlooked truths do you want to internalize more deeply?

"Receive His Gift"

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I'd love to hear your thoughts whenever. I'm finally caught up on letters and almost caught up on emails, so reach out and I'll get back to you in a Wednesday or two!

Love,
Elder Rigby



Wednesday, April 9, 2025

Week 93 - Miami, Oklahoma

"Not 'Aliens,' 'Elders'!" - a guy to his daughter when we first met them


Hey all!

Speed round this week because I wanna go play some sports with the other Elders but I ain't 'boutta skip a week this far into the mish:

 Hazel's back! She watched a session of General Conference with us and absolutely loved it. Gotta get her a doctor's note for the coffee thing but she's still doing great.

 Speaking of the Church's general conference, it rocked. Like holy cow. All five sessions had such inspiring Christ-centered messages. I love getting a little reminder every six months that the Paul wasn't joking when he said the Lord would build His Church on apostles and prophets (Ephesians 2:19-22).

 I had so many favorite messages, but one I'd like to share this week is called β€œ'Draw Near unto Me'” by President Henry B. Eyring, an Apostle who serves as one of the counselors to the prophet. Here's his message:

Last but not least, Flagstaff AZ temple! Let's go! I was so excited when I heard the announcement. I've really wanted to live in Flagstaff after finishing school for awhile now, and that's one more great reason to do so. Big W. 

Song of the week: Hymn #1027 "Welcome Home"

Cool BYU devotional: "The Power of Not Knowing" by Liz Wiseman. Latter-day Saint mom and early morning seminary teacher who also, y'know, is the founder and CEO of her own firm and casually advises Fortune 500 companies. 

Love y'all!

Elder Rigby



Wednesday, April 2, 2025

Week 92 - Miami, Oklahoma

Hey all!


I'm short on time today so I'll be more brief this week. I'm determined to email every single week until my mission ends, though. Only missed a couple weeks so far πŸ˜

πŸ‘΄β˜•οΈ  Marvin's doing awesome! Since we've met him last Monday, he's come to three lessons, two scripture studies, church, and a baptismal service out in Joplin. Who says 80-year-olds can't change? Marvin is all about learning and is determined to be reunited with his wife in the next life. His last big hurdle besides a couple of cups of coffee (yup, the rumors are true - we avoid coffee and all other addictive and/or destructive substances in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you're curious about why, feel free to ask me!) is gaining a witness that the Lord truly has restored His kingdom to the earth again preparatory to the Second Coming. 
  
  Lucky for him and for all of us, this Saturday and Sunday is the Church's semiannual General Conference! A common question our friends have when we tell them we believe in modern prophets is, "Well...what do they say?" Throughout this special conference, we get to find out. 

πŸ‘΅β˜•οΈ  Lots of coffee talk this week. Our 96-year-old friend Hazel (my little sister Hazel turned 18 this week by the way πŸ₯³) had immediately decided to drop coffee for a week when we first taught her the Word of Wisdom, but...uh...it kinda backfired. She's so old now that her system physically can't handle caffeine withdrawals and she was super ill all weekend, so her doctor told her if she doesn't want to actually die she had to keep drinking coffee. One morning and five cups later, she was pretty much back to normal. Guess she gets a doctor's note on this one πŸ€·β€β™‚️

πŸ§”πŸ₯‘ Our friend Richard, the lost recent convert from Idaho who we went to a Chinese buffet with a few weeks ago, has come to church every single week since then! He's become buddies with the two other members we ate lunch with that day and they hang out all the time. He describes their group as "basically those two grumpy old Muppets who make fun of Kermit from the audience." He's a lot nicer than he gives himself credit for, though. 

 β›οΈπŸ” Goodness gracious, they really are making a Minecraft movie. I'll miss it in theaters, but at least I can buy the Minecraft movie collectible meal at McDonald's. Worth. 

Song of the week: "Spies" by Coldplay

 

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 Our mission president, President Hathaway, has a vision vision that this mission is capable of baptizing and confirming hundreds of souls each month. And, for the first time in mission history, we broke the one-hundred mark with 108 baptisms in the month of March! Now, we didn't end up having any convert baptisms this month, but we worked hard and saw miraculous success in other ways. Besides, a win for one is a win for us all. Sharing the restored gospel is the ultimate team sport. Check it: 

But I do not joy in my own success alone, but my joy is more full because of the success of my brethren, who have been up to the land of Nephi. Behold, they have labored exceedingly, and have brought forth much fruit; and how great shall be their reward! Now, when I think of the success of these my brethren my soul is carried away, even to the separation of it from the body, as it were, so great is my joy.

- Alma 29:14-16

  So go share the good news! Millions of the elect of God are waiting to hear it and the Lord is "hastening His work." I promise you that inviting others to "come and see" is worth it. If every single one of you reading this email prayerfully invites as many friends and family members as the Lord will put into our hearts and only one person out of all those we invited comes to know that Jesus Christ's kingdom is back and it's back for good, then we will all have collectively helped bring a child of God to the path back home to Him. Wouldn't that be amazing?

Love,
Elder Oliver Rigby




Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Week 91 - Miami, Oklahoma

 Hey all!


Yesterday marked exactly three months until my departure date. I wasn't really expecting this, but these last few miles of the race are really taking all my stamina haha. It's funny that at the start of my mission I was all energy and lackin' in experience, but now I'm all experience and lackin' in energy. Still out working hard though. We saw some awesome miracles this week. 

I wrote an absolute ton here, so feel free to skim. TL:DR God's been introducing us to some cool folks here in Miami. 

Marvin: A dignified 80-year-old Christian brother who referred himself to the missionaries through our website comeuntochrist.org. His wife of 57 years passed away a couple years back and he was super lonely and spiritually, but he remembered how his brother and sister-in-law who joined the Church of Jesus Christ as young adults had always been all-in their faith and, after sixty years or so of simmering, decided it was finally time to see what their faith was all about. 
  We gave him a tour of the church the next day, and he was absolutely full of questions about where his wife was and what she was doing on the other side after we showed him a video of the Rome, Italy temple tour! And, just for good measure, the Lord set it all up so that there just happened to be a group of eight awesome members doing a scripture study in the church together and we were able to set him up with them before we left! I can seriously see him joining the Church very soon. 

Floyd and Michael: Floyd is a young guy just a couple of months older than me who has been looking to "get right with God again". He referred himself about a month ago, but he works evenings and the last missionaries couldn't get in contact with him. He referred himself again last week, and it turns out that his sister who he lives with was best friends with a member of the Church as a kid and put in a good word for us! 
  We taught him and his younger brother Michael about the Book of Mormon and the Restoration of the Gospel of Christ, and just on a whim felt prompted to mention that it's a testament that the ancient Native Americans were visited by Christ. He responded, "Funny you say that...Michael and I are both Native American from two different tribes. I really want to read this book now." 
  Needless to say, they're doing exactly that and loving it. We've since handed them off to the Joplin YSA branch (young single adult) sister missionaries, so we're praying that they have a great time there tomorrow night for institute and this Sunday for church!

Jennifer: You guessed it: another media referral. Jennifer's been studying the Book of Mormon with us for a few weeks now and finally joined us for church the first time on Sunday, which she loved. Her daughter's playing in the junior college basketball nationals right now, so that's pretty neat. More on her soon!

  Have I mentioned yet that I absolutely love media referrals? comeuntochrist.org is just the best. Check it out after reading this and see if the Lord inspires you to share it with someone you know!

Hazel: The lovely 96-year-old mother of one of our fairly recent converts named Jim. She's hard of hearing and going blind, but she still has rock-solid faith and has noticed the way the restored gospel has changed her son over the last four years, so when she had a falling-out with her old church, she decided it was time to give his a look. 
  We taught her about the Word of Wisdom on Sunday and she immediately promised us, without us even inviting her to do so, that she would not drink a single cup of coffee for the next seven days until she joins us in church this week. If she likes church and can stand being without coffee, she said she'll be done for good. It's incredible to see that a lady who's lived for almost one hundred years is so humble and willing to change her life when God witnesses truth to her. We love Hazel! Please pray for her that she will love church and that she'll feel prepared to accept our baptism invitation soon. 

Dominique: A sister who called out to us as we walked out of the apartment building and said that she was a member of the Church! Dominique and her husband stopped attending her old ward in central California after some kind of congregation gerrymandering drama but still had a strong testimony of the Lord and wanted to come back again. She told us her stories of rescuing people from the California wildfires as a humanitarian worker, then how they almost died racing three tornadoes to their grandchildren's house, then how upon leaving the tornado shelter she watched the family cow get struck by lightning, then how she restored her husband's memory by feeding him his favorite meal of steak and Coca-Cola after he went loopy from congestive heart failure, congestive kidney failure, and sepsis.
  All of this was said over the course of fifteen minutes with absolutely no pauses between her sentences. It was wild. Anyways they're joining us in church this Sunday πŸ‘

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I want to shout out all the people who have sent me packages or other mail throughout the mission: you all are so kind! Because of you, I've reached a milestone: I now have infinite candy for the rest of my life! Because of that, I'm happy to say I'm all good on candy and snacks for now. If you do feel inclined to send mail beyond a letter or card, it would be greatly appreciated if it's something small I'd be able to fit in my suitcase for when I fly home in three months. Thanks!

Air Force update: after gathering some info and talking with current/past servicemen and servicewomen, it seems like the program I've been looking for is the HPSP (Health Professions Scholarship Program). Upon being accepted to the program, a branch of the armed forces will pay for your grad/doctoral school in exchange for committing to around two to four years of service in your profession for that branch. That's going to be a decision for at least three years down the road, but if you know anyone who was part of this program, I'd still love to talk to them. Thanks again!

Song of the week: "Nearer, My God to Thee" by Gerald Causse and Nicolas Giusti

This devotional is amazing! Coach Kalani Sitake of the (very successful as of late) BYU football team shares how your attitude makes all the difference in God's plan. 10/10!

Join for cheeseburger bombs: https://photos.app.goo.gl/2sk1refRidSszyYk7

Coming soon to an album near you: We were visited by Elder and Sister Renlund this week! Being able to hear from one of the Lord's twelve Apostles and his wife was such a gift. I took eighteen pages of shorthand notes on my memo pad πŸ˜³ so I'm still transcribing them into my journal. To spare myself hours of writing and spare you even more scrolling through this email, I've decided I'm just going to post my notes on my Google Photos once I get them all neat and organized. 


Love you all! I'm still slow at responding to emails and letters sometimes, but I'll get back to you soon. 


- Elder Rigby


1) The Ringwoods' visit
2) The Renlunds' visit
3) zoom church > video games







Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Week 90 - Miami, Oklahoma

Love ain't no billygoat
Love ain't got no beard
Love don't got no horns
Love's got regular ol' human eyeballs
Love don't got Satan's eyeballs
Love ain't no billygoat, that's for sure

- The Thrilling Adventure Hour: "Sparks, Nevada: Marshall on Mars"

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Hey all! This one's gonna be a bit more concise, but here's the news:

- My parents had their 25th anniversary on the 17th! They chose to celebrate with a ski trip with the whole fam (minus me) and my cousins from Washington who happened to he coming down for a few days, so when I called to wish them a happy anniversary, I got to talk with some relatives I hadn't seen in over two years! Love you Larsons πŸ«Ά

- We found a bunch of people to teach in one really cool neighborhood and on three separate days there the same random cat found us and started walking around from door to door with us. Its coat was half black and half white, so it fit right in with our shirts and slacks haha. Pros cat πŸ€΅

- The work is really picking up here in Miami! We've gotten to meet some awesome people lately and the ward is really coming together to help the people in these here towns to come unto Christ. 

- All the missionaries in our district went to a hibachi truck here in Miami after a district meeting one day and none of us got food poisoning! It's the little miracles that count. 

- ...Are the rumors true? Wallace...Grommit...are you really back? Someone please confirm this for me. I've gotta know. 

- We met a guy who was on the blacksmithing show Forged in Fire twice and he let us hold one of the swords he made on it! You meet the coolest people in the most random ways when you knock doors as a missionary. 

- 21 months! Man, that's weird. 

- Songs stuck in my head this week: "Holiday" and "Horchata" both by Vampire Weekend

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Last but not least, a little miracle:

 Our visit with Elder Ringwood of the Seventy and his wife, Sister Ringwood (one of the daughters of President Nelson) last week was so awesome. They covered a ton, but my favorite part of it all was that when I was preparing for his visit, I found a scripture I'd been looking for for almost three full years now: Genesis 44:33-34. 

 In his April 2022 message "For God So Loved Us", Elder Ringwood tells the story of Judah, the son of Jacob, whose integrity to his father and love for his younger brothers not only saved the young prophet Joseph's life, but also acted as a powerful "type and shadow" of how Christ feels for us. Here's what Elder Ringwood had to say about Judah:

Why does Heavenly Father’s personalized plan for us include helping others return to Him? Because this is how we become like Jesus Christ. Ultimately, the account of Judah and Benjamin teaches us about the Savior’s sacrifice for us. Through His Atonement, He gave His life to bring us home. Judah’s words express the Savior’s love: β€œHow shall I go up to my father, and [you] be not with me?” As gatherers of Israel, those can be our words as well.


Love you all!

Elder Rigby

 P.S.

Quick favor: I have some really big decisions coming up with how I'm going to finance my fall semester (and every other semester until I hopefully get a doctorate in psychology haha), and I've been seriously considering joining the air national guard or air force ROTC. If any of you have useful info, experiences, or pointers for talking with recruiters and, in general, how I might make this work for my life and career, I'd really appreciate it. I have until June to sign up so I'll have to make this decision before I'm even done with my mission and could use all the knowledge and help I can get. 

Thanks!

Elder Rigby