Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Week 91 - Miami, Oklahoma

 Hey all!


Yesterday marked exactly three months until my departure date. I wasn't really expecting this, but these last few miles of the race are really taking all my stamina haha. It's funny that at the start of my mission I was all energy and lackin' in experience, but now I'm all experience and lackin' in energy. Still out working hard though. We saw some awesome miracles this week. 

I wrote an absolute ton here, so feel free to skim. TL:DR God's been introducing us to some cool folks here in Miami. 

Marvin: A dignified 80-year-old Christian brother who referred himself to the missionaries through our website comeuntochrist.org. His wife of 57 years passed away a couple years back and he was super lonely and spiritually, but he remembered how his brother and sister-in-law who joined the Church of Jesus Christ as young adults had always been all-in their faith and, after sixty years or so of simmering, decided it was finally time to see what their faith was all about. 
  We gave him a tour of the church the next day, and he was absolutely full of questions about where his wife was and what she was doing on the other side after we showed him a video of the Rome, Italy temple tour! And, just for good measure, the Lord set it all up so that there just happened to be a group of eight awesome members doing a scripture study in the church together and we were able to set him up with them before we left! I can seriously see him joining the Church very soon. 

Floyd and Michael: Floyd is a young guy just a couple of months older than me who has been looking to "get right with God again". He referred himself about a month ago, but he works evenings and the last missionaries couldn't get in contact with him. He referred himself again last week, and it turns out that his sister who he lives with was best friends with a member of the Church as a kid and put in a good word for us! 
  We taught him and his younger brother Michael about the Book of Mormon and the Restoration of the Gospel of Christ, and just on a whim felt prompted to mention that it's a testament that the ancient Native Americans were visited by Christ. He responded, "Funny you say that...Michael and I are both Native American from two different tribes. I really want to read this book now." 
  Needless to say, they're doing exactly that and loving it. We've since handed them off to the Joplin YSA branch (young single adult) sister missionaries, so we're praying that they have a great time there tomorrow night for institute and this Sunday for church!

Jennifer: You guessed it: another media referral. Jennifer's been studying the Book of Mormon with us for a few weeks now and finally joined us for church the first time on Sunday, which she loved. Her daughter's playing in the junior college basketball nationals right now, so that's pretty neat. More on her soon!

  Have I mentioned yet that I absolutely love media referrals? comeuntochrist.org is just the best. Check it out after reading this and see if the Lord inspires you to share it with someone you know!

Hazel: The lovely 96-year-old mother of one of our fairly recent converts named Jim. She's hard of hearing and going blind, but she still has rock-solid faith and has noticed the way the restored gospel has changed her son over the last four years, so when she had a falling-out with her old church, she decided it was time to give his a look. 
  We taught her about the Word of Wisdom on Sunday and she immediately promised us, without us even inviting her to do so, that she would not drink a single cup of coffee for the next seven days until she joins us in church this week. If she likes church and can stand being without coffee, she said she'll be done for good. It's incredible to see that a lady who's lived for almost one hundred years is so humble and willing to change her life when God witnesses truth to her. We love Hazel! Please pray for her that she will love church and that she'll feel prepared to accept our baptism invitation soon. 

Dominique: A sister who called out to us as we walked out of the apartment building and said that she was a member of the Church! Dominique and her husband stopped attending her old ward in central California after some kind of congregation gerrymandering drama but still had a strong testimony of the Lord and wanted to come back again. She told us her stories of rescuing people from the California wildfires as a humanitarian worker, then how they almost died racing three tornadoes to their grandchildren's house, then how upon leaving the tornado shelter she watched the family cow get struck by lightning, then how she restored her husband's memory by feeding him his favorite meal of steak and Coca-Cola after he went loopy from congestive heart failure, congestive kidney failure, and sepsis.
  All of this was said over the course of fifteen minutes with absolutely no pauses between her sentences. It was wild. Anyways they're joining us in church this Sunday πŸ‘

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I want to shout out all the people who have sent me packages or other mail throughout the mission: you all are so kind! Because of you, I've reached a milestone: I now have infinite candy for the rest of my life! Because of that, I'm happy to say I'm all good on candy and snacks for now. If you do feel inclined to send mail beyond a letter or card, it would be greatly appreciated if it's something small I'd be able to fit in my suitcase for when I fly home in three months. Thanks!

Air Force update: after gathering some info and talking with current/past servicemen and servicewomen, it seems like the program I've been looking for is the HPSP (Health Professions Scholarship Program). Upon being accepted to the program, a branch of the armed forces will pay for your grad/doctoral school in exchange for committing to around two to four years of service in your profession for that branch. That's going to be a decision for at least three years down the road, but if you know anyone who was part of this program, I'd still love to talk to them. Thanks again!

Song of the week: "Nearer, My God to Thee" by Gerald Causse and Nicolas Giusti

This devotional is amazing! Coach Kalani Sitake of the (very successful as of late) BYU football team shares how your attitude makes all the difference in God's plan. 10/10!

Join for cheeseburger bombs: https://photos.app.goo.gl/2sk1refRidSszyYk7

Coming soon to an album near you: We were visited by Elder and Sister Renlund this week! Being able to hear from one of the Lord's twelve Apostles and his wife was such a gift. I took eighteen pages of shorthand notes on my memo pad πŸ˜³ so I'm still transcribing them into my journal. To spare myself hours of writing and spare you even more scrolling through this email, I've decided I'm just going to post my notes on my Google Photos once I get them all neat and organized. 


Love you all! I'm still slow at responding to emails and letters sometimes, but I'll get back to you soon. 


- Elder Rigby


1) The Ringwoods' visit
2) The Renlunds' visit
3) zoom church > video games







Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Week 90 - Miami, Oklahoma

Love ain't no billygoat
Love ain't got no beard
Love don't got no horns
Love's got regular ol' human eyeballs
Love don't got Satan's eyeballs
Love ain't no billygoat, that's for sure

- The Thrilling Adventure Hour: "Sparks, Nevada: Marshall on Mars"

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Hey all! This one's gonna be a bit more concise, but here's the news:

- My parents had their 25th anniversary on the 17th! They chose to celebrate with a ski trip with the whole fam (minus me) and my cousins from Washington who happened to he coming down for a few days, so when I called to wish them a happy anniversary, I got to talk with some relatives I hadn't seen in over two years! Love you Larsons πŸ«Ά

- We found a bunch of people to teach in one really cool neighborhood and on three separate days there the same random cat found us and started walking around from door to door with us. Its coat was half black and half white, so it fit right in with our shirts and slacks haha. Pros cat πŸ€΅

- The work is really picking up here in Miami! We've gotten to meet some awesome people lately and the ward is really coming together to help the people in these here towns to come unto Christ. 

- All the missionaries in our district went to a hibachi truck here in Miami after a district meeting one day and none of us got food poisoning! It's the little miracles that count. 

- ...Are the rumors true? Wallace...Grommit...are you really back? Someone please confirm this for me. I've gotta know. 

- We met a guy who was on the blacksmithing show Forged in Fire twice and he let us hold one of the swords he made on it! You meet the coolest people in the most random ways when you knock doors as a missionary. 

- 21 months! Man, that's weird. 

- Songs stuck in my head this week: "Holiday" and "Horchata" both by Vampire Weekend

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Last but not least, a little miracle:

 Our visit with Elder Ringwood of the Seventy and his wife, Sister Ringwood (one of the daughters of President Nelson) last week was so awesome. They covered a ton, but my favorite part of it all was that when I was preparing for his visit, I found a scripture I'd been looking for for almost three full years now: Genesis 44:33-34. 

 In his April 2022 message "For God So Loved Us", Elder Ringwood tells the story of Judah, the son of Jacob, whose integrity to his father and love for his younger brothers not only saved the young prophet Joseph's life, but also acted as a powerful "type and shadow" of how Christ feels for us. Here's what Elder Ringwood had to say about Judah:

Why does Heavenly Father’s personalized plan for us include helping others return to Him? Because this is how we become like Jesus Christ. Ultimately, the account of Judah and Benjamin teaches us about the Savior’s sacrifice for us. Through His Atonement, He gave His life to bring us home. Judah’s words express the Savior’s love: β€œHow shall I go up to my father, and [you] be not with me?” As gatherers of Israel, those can be our words as well.


Love you all!

Elder Rigby

 P.S.

Quick favor: I have some really big decisions coming up with how I'm going to finance my fall semester (and every other semester until I hopefully get a doctorate in psychology haha), and I've been seriously considering joining the air national guard or air force ROTC. If any of you have useful info, experiences, or pointers for talking with recruiters and, in general, how I might make this work for my life and career, I'd really appreciate it. I have until June to sign up so I'll have to make this decision before I'm even done with my mission and could use all the knowledge and help I can get. 

Thanks!

Elder Rigby





Wednesday, March 12, 2025

Week 89: Side Quests - Miami, Oklahoma

Hey all!

Definition: "An optional task or mission in a video game that is not part of the main storyline or primary objective. Side quests are typically secondary to the main quest and can provide additional challenges, rewards, and story depth."  - Meta AI


Quest #1: Tracked down our friend Brandon from NEO campus at the school's secret Esports lab in the basement of the music building and watched him sauce two guys in a row in a Smash Bros tourney. My man πŸ™Œ

Quest #2: Drove like 45 minutes to rescue three other Elders when their brand-new car broke down on the way to us and ended up waiting over an hour and a half for the tow truck with one while the other two got a ride home with a member who was cool enough to pull up and taxi them on a moment's notice at like 9:00pm. Smh Hyundai

Quest #3: Found an awesome guy named Richard who joined the Church in Idaho a few years ago but had to move around a bunch to look for work and got lost spiritually along the way. He'd just barely quit his night shift trucking job the week we knocked on his door, which was fifteen minutes before we had lunch at a restaurant literally next door with a ward member who was also a trucker. He was happy to join us for lunch right then, and then came to church two days later to see his new trucker friend teach the lesson during the second hour!

Quest #4: Narrowly avoided a real estate disaster when the apartment my five college buddies and I told us they didn't have room, which meant mama and papa Rigby and I had to scramble to find a new place. Fortunately it all worked out and we're still all going to be living together, coincidentally at the exact same apartment complex my dad and uncle stayed at when they went to BYU in the 90’s haha. Legacy status on west campus πŸ‘‘

Quest #5: On Sunday, a sister in the ward referred us a family of six who are looking for a church, but she only had their address and technically couldn't be involved cause she works for them, so for the first time in my mission we went "truck tracting". We knocked every house on a whole mile of super long, spread-out farm road by driving to each one, pulling over, knocking on their door, talking for a minute, and then driving on to the next one. Definitely a weird way to do missionary work but hey, it's the best excuse we could come up with to meet them without violating FERPA or somethin. 

Quest #6: Found five YSA-age football players on campus within a half an hour and we set up a Book of Mormon study with all of them for tomorrow at 5. The YSA sister missionaries are driving 45 minutes out here to scoop 'em up, so hopefully it goes great πŸ€ž 

Song of the week: "In Too Deep" by Jacob Collier

Awesome message from a global Church leader visiting our mission, Elder Michael T. Ringwood: Truly Good and without Guile

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Thought: Psalm 56:8 

Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?

This is a verse shared by Dr. Frankl in Man's Search for Meaning, which I finished this week. I know mentioned it a couple weeks ago, but dang, that book was good. I was blown away by how impressively his writing aligned directly with the doctrine of Christ and the personal vision of my mission president. God definitely led me to read it at the time I did. Anyways, I thought this verse was cool. I don't know if this is quite what the psalmist meant when they wrote this verse, but it brought to my mind the idea that no matter what those we pray for may be going through, God always knows the complexities of their trials. Our prayers for them are saved "in His book", and when we give Him the gift of our faith, He will always put it to the very best use possible. 

Your prayers are saved in His book. 

Love, Elder Rigby

Wednesday, March 5, 2025

Week 88 - Miami, Oklahoma

 Hey all!


I kinda wrote a sermon last week so I'm gonna try and make this email a little more fun. Here's the latest:


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 We decided to clean-slate just about our entire teaching pool and really go hard on looking for new friends who were prnepared for the restored gospel. In order to keep things fresh, we also decided to start finding on Northeast Oklahoma A&M campus, which means I've now served at three different colleges throughout my mission: UAFS, UofA, and NEO. Call me professor the way we been educating out here πŸ‘¨β€πŸ«

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  I played Unstable Unicorns for the first time ever this week and wow, that game rocks haha. I'm 3 for 3 on wins right now too πŸ˜ (weird flex Rigby but okay)

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Met a cool RLDS dude named Bucky Barnes. Like, that's actually his name. Brother is a bona fide Marvel antihero. 100% gotta say the Red Book code words to him next time and see if he turns into a Soviet super-assasin. 

🐢πŸ”ͺ I've been waiting like three weeks to write this one haha. Back in Anderson, we visited a nice member family with a fancy house out in the boonies of the boonies. We expected a pretty chill visit because they're more on the quiet side, but NOPE. We walked in and their dogs went absolutely ballistic, which is apparently pretty normal. They're both rescues, and not only that, one of them was a Pittweiler. Pitbull + Rottweiler. Oh my gosh oh my gosh oh my gosh that thing was so scary holy cow. If we made the slightest move it would flip out, so we had to hold perfectly still while teaching or else. It was like teaching a shark while holding an armed grenade. Anyways they were a nice family πŸ˜Š

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 Drove through an abandoned mining town that got shut down by the federal government after everybody got lead poisoning and found a lone statue of a gorilla in the rainy darkness. It was such an unreal vibe that we had to stop for a picture.

99x🎈
Song of the week: "99 Luftballons" by Nena
 
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One thing we've felt inspired to do to strengthen our finding efforts is to be bold and genuine with the Book of Mormon. My personal favorite is to walk up to someone and, after breaking the ice a little, invite them to read and highlight one single page of the book. If they choose to do so and the experience was different than they expected, we invite them to read a full chapter with us together another time. We had an absolutely golden first interaction with our new friend Brandon through doing this, and now we've got a lesson with him tomorrow!

 So many people know about the Book of Mormon, but so few have actually opened it up and read from it. Therefore, we invite them to do exactly thatβ€”to "come and see". There's no middle man required; the Truth speaks for Himself. 

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 I absolutely love music, and the piano has a special place my heart. It has been and continues to be one of my very favorite ways to connect with God, grow my talents, and genuinely have fun.

 Over a full year ago all the way back in my very first area, Bentonville, I received an impression that, if I truly put my heart to it, I could learn how to play hymns well enough on the piano to play as the accompanist in Sacrament Meetings. Lo and behold, here I am in what could quite possibly be the last area of my whole mission and the congregation here doesn't have anyone who can play the piano. Last Sunday, for the first time in my whole life and after months of practice on past P-days, I played the piano accompaniment for the Sacrament hymn #100 "Nearer, My God, to Thee". Yes, it was far from perfect; nevertheless, I can't begin to say how special of an experience it was to finally be able to give back my talents to the Lord after working to magnify them for so long. I'm grateful He gave me the chance.

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"I love that man better who swears a stream as long as my arm yet deals justice to his neighbors and mercifully deals his substance to the poor, than the long, smooth-faced hypocrite. I do not want you to think that I am very righteous, for I am not."

"...There was one good man and his name was Jesus."

- Joseph Smith


Love,
Elder Rigby