Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Week 61 - Fayetteville, Arkansas

 Hey all!


Another week, another email. My time in Fayetteville's been flying by. Only a week and a half until one of our friends is baptized on September 8th! Here's some stuff that happened in the last week:

- Our friends who didn't like organized religion went to church with the family missionaries on Sunday >:)

- My friend Harrison gave his mission farewell message in church last Sunday! He talked all about the power of service and the parallels between serving others at the food bank (which we did with him every Tuesday) and serving others in the temple. In both places, we help real people in need overcome real trials as we do as our Savior Jesus Christ would.

- Mission tour! Two members of the Seventy, Elder Christensen and Elder Buckner (global leaders of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints,) came to our mission for a few days and we got to hear from them and our mission leaders yesterday! Elder Christensen led the meeting and we had an awesome discussion all about the power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and the importance of helping others receive His gift for us through baptism and confirmation. 

- For P-day today we hit the driving range, played some pool at the Institute building, and FINALLY got haircuts. Good stuff.

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Storytime:

 I got a really nice watch from my parents last Christmas and I totally lost it right before I left Fort Smith back in April. I prayed so hard and we spent hours looking for it everywhere with zero luck and the clearest answer I got was that it simply wasn't the Lord's will that I find it then. 

Fast-forward to our mission tour yesterday and I saw an Elder wearing a watch just like mine and told him I liked it and used to have one too and he was like, "Thanks man, I found it at the church in Fort Smith a month or two ago and nobody ever claimed it. It's pretty nice, right?" 

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...and now I have my watch back! Shoutout to Élder Anderson for taking good care of it the last couple months. He's awesome. 

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Super cool talk! Give it a listen:
Following Up by Elder M. Russell Ballard

Song of the week: Children's hymnbook page 76, "This Is My Beloved Son" (April 2009) 

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Thought: Elder Olsen's Ten Minutes of Prayer

 Elder Olsen is just about the nicest guy you'd ever meet. He's a total teddy bear, which is ironic seeing as how he's built like a grizzly. We served near each other when I was in Monett, Missouri earlier in the summer and he once told me of a way he planned to improve his relationship with God: he'd go to his closet, set a timer, and spend ten minutes with Heavenly Father in sincere vocal prayer.

 That idea immediately stood out to me as an inspired one. As you've probably seen from my past emails, I absolutely love the idea of building a personal relationship with God and with Jesus Christ; quality time is definitely one of my love languages. In my eyes, one of the best ways you can build a relationship with someone is by spending real, meaningful time with them.

 I decided to take Elder Olsen's goal and try it for myself and I want to testify that it has quickly become my favorite ten minutes of every day. As I have changed my focus from checking the "I prayed tonight" box off my list to spending ten minutes of pure one-on-one time with God, the eternal truth that He is our loving Heavenly Father has become more certain to me than ever before.

 If you want a deeper relationship with God, I invite you to find a quiet place and spend ten minutes praying out loud to Him. It may be a challenge at first, but it just might change your life. With that kind of "if," don't you think it's worth a shot?

Love,
Elder Rigby



Wednesday, August 21, 2024

Week 60: #1 Loon Fan - Fayetteville, Arkansas

Hey everyone,


This week was pretty eventful! I'm gonna do some bullet points this time so my word count isn't in the ten thousands.

Spiritual

- Surprise exchanges with Elder Smythe and Elder Shields, the traveling missionaries! Elder Smythe, my 3.5th companion, goes home this Saturday. I'm gonna miss him. 

- Interviews with President Hathaway! I really trust him as my leader. He's a man of God.

- We set up a free lemonade stand on campus with the senior missionaries and a Chinese exchange student they met came to church on Sunday! He's a super nice guy whose uncle told him to join a Christian church and we're happy to help with that. 

- Got Bible-bashed like five times (three in one day on Thursday 💀) and dodged a few more. Not fun, would not recommend. But seeing as how Jesus Christ is the most controversial figure in the history of the world, go figure that His true gospel is controversial too. 

- In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the focus of our Sunday meetings is around an observance instituted by Jesus Christ and known as the Sacrament (aka the Lord's Supper, the Holy Communion/Eucharist, etc.) and I had the opportunity to pass it to the congregation last week. The building was packed to the point that we used all of our trays and ended up being just one cup short, the one that would have been for me. It was sooooo hard to keep a straight face walking all the way to the back of the room, grabbing one single Sacrament cup, filling it up, walking all the way back, and saying the blessing on the water all over again, but all laughs aside it was actually a powerful testament to the fact that Jesus Christ's gospel is a gospel of leaving the ninety and nine for the one. 

- Our friend from the Rogers sister missionaries is doing amazing. She is so cool. Her baptism date is September 8th and we had another lesson with her tonight!

- Knocked a guy's door and he opened and said something like "I talked to you two a week ago and I'm just gonna tell you organized religion has been starting wars and killing people since like the 1300's." And we were like "Yeah man, we totally agree. That's why we need modern prophets to restore Jesus Christ's original church back to the earth." And he was like "Hmmmm... let's meet for coffee sometime." One thing led to another and we taught him and his wife on Monday and they're so cool. Now they're coming to a handoff lesson at the church with the family missionaries on Friday 😎

-  Campus contacting while school is in session is insane. There are just so. many. people. I usually didn't have any problem talking with everyone but as the amount of people we've talked to has gone from a drinking fountain to a fire hose I've started to see the limits of my social battery. However, I've also seen a bunch of tender mercy pick-me-ups showing me that the Lord is aware of my shortcomings. My two favorites were a miraculous spur-of-the-moment church tour with a girl we met on campus two days ago and an awesome exchange with my zone leader Élder Crim yesterday.

Fun

- Did some yoga 🧘‍♂️

- Bought a drink cup with a snack lid for five bucks and put pistachios in it. Legendary purchase

- Had six Elders in our apartment for five days in a row because theirs was getting sprayed for mold. We threw a birthday party for Elder Peterson with the ZLs  🥳

- There's a K-dog place in Fayetteville let's go!!!!! I've eaten three Korean corn dogs in the last week. 

- Totally sliced my finger open cutting a bagel with a butter knife. We live in a fallen world I guess. 

- Talked to a Japanese guy on campus and he was holding three of the same T-shirt so we asked where he got them and he was just like "here you go, you can have them" even though we were 90% sure he definitely got them for himself. Dang Nihonjin are too polite. 俺はどろぼうになったようだね。

- Saw a sticker that said "Hug a loon" with a little drawing of a loon (the bird) next to it. If anyone knows the deeper meaning of this, please clue me in. I've gotta know. 

- Songs that got stuck in my head this week: "Cat" by C418 and "Dog" also by C418. Give em a listen for me if you can 🫡


Thought

Alma 15:18
Alma 17:1-2

"Brother" by NeedToBreathe

Brother let me be your shelter 
I'll never leave you all alone 
I can be the one you call 
When you're low, oh

Brother let me be your fortress 
When the night winds are driving on 
Be the one to light the way 
Bring you home, oh

Homie check: if you're on this email list, I care about you. Jesus Christ is the strength of parents, youth, children, families, and friends. If you need to talk, let's talk sometime.

Love,
Elder Rigby



Wednesday, August 14, 2024

Week 59 - Fayetteville, Arkansas

 Hey all!

Happy fourteenth birthday, Marin! You're so awesome. Also, happy anniversary to Grandma and Grandpa Rigby! Gilbert folks, wish my cool little sister happy birthday today for me please!

 This week we had the opportunity to start teaching a friend from the Rogers YSA missionaries who's preparing to be baptized in the next few weeks! She is so solid. Her lessons have been some of the most spiritual teaching opportunities of my whole mission. It's such a blessing to be able to be a part of her conversion to the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

I'm sure there's more to write about but I'm not in a super wordy mood this week. The music standards just got updated in our mission, though, so here's some good Christian songs we heard on the radio this week:

- "Brother" by NeedToBreathe

- "Still Rolling Stones" by Lauren Daigle

- "Have I Done Any Good?" by Alex Boyé. This one's actually from the Sacred Music app so every missionary can listen to its absolutely crazy intro🕴


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Thought: For the Strength of Youth

About two years ago, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints published a revised version of "For the Strength of Youth: A Guide for Making Choices." This book is amazing. By using principles of Christlike discipleship rather than enumerated standards, it simultaneously teaches three us things: 

1) Jesus Christ is the way to eternal joy.

2) You are a beloved spirit child of God.

3) Your Father in Heaven trusts you.

Missionaries: use it in teaching! We found it to be especially powerful when teaching our friends about the Ten Commandments (which are conveniently included in the back of the book.)

Family and friends: give it a read! This book came from a living prophet and apostles of Jesus Christ. If they truly are who they say they are, then the value of their words is immeasurable. 

See for yourself!

For the Strength of Youth

The Book of Mormon

Love,
Elder Rigby

Wednesday, August 7, 2024

Week 58 - Fayetteville, Arkansas

 Hey all!

 Another week down. This week was tiring and I've been feeling pretty out of juice lately, but the tender mercies of the Lord always contrast better against a dark backdrop. Instead of a big spiritual thought today, I'll just share some of those bright spots:

1) We accidentally knocked the door a guy who was a member of our local family congregation and he let us right in for a quick visit, and for some reason felt prompted to do a practice run with him on a lesson we teach on the restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. About halfway through the lesson, his mom came downstairs and joined in, and when it ended and we asked if they knew anyone the missionaries could teach, the mom said "y'know, maybe it's time for me to take the lessons again." 

OH. 

So that's why Heavenly Father wanted us to teach a lesson to a guy who'd already heard it. She wasn't even a member of our church. God knows His children a whole lot better than we do.

2) We've spent a lot more time lately looking for people to teach by going to public places and talking to everyone and let me just say man, being real with people is difficult sometimes. I often used to mask my real personality behind my "Chick-Fil-A Employee" persona I kept from my time working at the Church of the Chicken, but now, through prayer and work, I feel like I'm finally able to talk to anyone and everyone as myself, Elder Oliver Rigby. It feels good. Plus, school's starting up again and we're about to be on campus on the daily soon, so God's timing is just right as always. 

3) We were out tracting at like 8:45 and we met a couple who at first seemed uninterested, but somehow we just discerned that he had served in the military judging off the way he carried himself. We decided to just send it and ask, and sure enough, he was an ex-Marine who went to boot camp at Camp Pendleton, a military base with one end at the yearly Rigby family reunion spot and the other at my childhood hometown of Murrieta, CA! After that conversation, they were way more interested and now they're down to have the family missionaries over tomorrow and come to their church on Sunday! Plus, we found a cool college grad who wants to come to our study like 30 seconds later haha. Miracle night.

4) Okay, last miracle: Kenneth Rooks, a returned missionary and former BYU runner, just took silver in men's 3000m steeplechase! I LOVE the Olympics. They're so so so cool. So seeing a returned missionary and faithful disciple of Christ absolutely destroy in the Olympics like that is just incredible. ✌️🥈

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Scripture of the week: Moroni 7:27-32

Songs of the Week: 
- "Romantic Warrior" by Return to Forever
- "Campus" by Vampire Weekend

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Wow, that was a lot. If you're skimming through this, suffice to say that cool stuff happened this week. God is real and good.

Love,
Elder Rigby



Thursday, August 1, 2024

Week 57 - Fayetteville, Arkansas

 Hey all!


Wowowow a lot has happened this week and it's way more than I have time to cover, but here goes:

 Elder Foster, my companion, is such a good kid. We've already had experiences together in just our first week that have firmly convinced me that God prepared us to be companions with each other. My last time training a young missionary was at a tough time in my mission, so I see this time as a second chance. This transfer is special to me. The Fayetteville YSA ain't gonna know what hit 'em 😤

 Speaking of Fayetteville...holy cow, this city is gorgeous. I don't have many pictures but I'll just say that it's awesome here. It's built right into the forest all nestled in the big, rolling Ozark hills in a way I haven't seen in any of my other areas. Plus, the whole area around UofA campus is super nice and new and there's tons of murals and art everywhere. If you don't mind the trademark Southern heat and a completely brand-new species of insect just springing into existence every single week, then this place is totally the spot.

 A couple more cool miracles:

 An Elder who gave his mission farewell talk in church my very first Sunday in the field and whose family I know super well just referred one of his friends to us and now she and two of her friends are coming to our institute scripture study tomorrow!

 Plus, we followed a prompting Elder Foster had to tract (i.e. knock doors and share messages about Christ at) a few buildings in our own apartment complex and we ended up finding some cool new people who said they'd come to institute too!

Please pray for our friends!

- Mattie
- Freddy
- Matt

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Thought: Hymn #108 "The Lord Is My Shepherd"

Well, looks like I'm out of time this week. I absolutely love deep-diving into different teachings of and about the Savior, but I guess those things don't always have to be complicated to ring true.

When I played this hymn on the piano today, I felt the Spirit. Here's my favorite verse:

Thru the valley and shadow of death though I stray, 
Since thou art my Guardian, no evil I fear.
Thy rod shall defend me, thy staff be my stay.
No harm can befall with my Comforter near. 
No harm can befall with my Comforter near.

Music that praises God and Jesus Christ brings me light, peace, and joy, especially when I can share it with others. If you play an instrument, I invite you to magnify your God-given talent and learn a hymn to play for someone else. I promise you'll be glad you did.

Love, 
Elder Rigby




Thursday, July 25, 2024

Week 56: Perspective - Pierce City, Missouri

 Hey everyone!


Another week! This email's coming out a little late for various reasons, so sorry about that. 

Here's three highlights and one long story:

1) Norma chose to be baptized and confirmed a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints! She's amazing and the wonderful members of the Pierce City Branch have been there for her every step of the way. Now we're teaching her 21-year-old son Freddy!

2) Remember our friend who came to our church open house last week? Well, we had a lesson with her and a member family where we built a campfire and roasted s'mores on her little dairy farm in the country and it was just great. Good times.

3) Transfers! Guys, it's a crazy one. This time around, I'll be heading from out in the Missouri countryside straight to the Fayetteville YSA (young single adult congregation) to finish Elder Foster's training! I'm uber-super-duper excited. This is gonna be a complete 180 from the kind of missionary work I've done before and I'm gonna be 110% out of my comfort zone. Also, the Fayetteville YSA is the student ward for the University of Arkansas, the college where where Elder David A. Bednar taught as a business professor! 
GO HOGS 🐗

My new address is 1072 S Sports Fan Dr Apartment 102, Fayetteville, AR 72701.

Songs of the week:
"Meadowlarks" by Fleet Foxes
"Sunflower" by Vampire Weekend

Quote of the week: "Satan don't kick no dead dogs."


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Okay. if you're low on time, feel free to stop here. I won't feel bad if you don't want to read an epistle this week. But, if you've got the time and you want to know what's really been on my mind lately, read on. 


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Storytime:

Among others, two especially interesting things happened in the last two weeks. 

 First, a first-world tragedy. I went on exchanges with an Elder and past roommate who I used to really not get along with. Although we've since reconciled, I was really dreading this exchange and I just knew it was gonna be soooo awkward the whole way through. Fortunately, though, it turned out I was wrong. Reconnecting with him was actually an awesome opportunity to rebuild some bridges and we had a great day together. 

 Here's the kicker, though: as soon as we started talking about stuff back home, this dude totally spoiled my favorite TV show. 

 Man, I loved that series. Before my mission, I watched every episode multiple times, read every weekly comic release like clockwork, and feasted on every McDonald's promotional dipping sauce they dared to put on the menu. I was a supernerd, and some of you who know me well know that I absolutely cannot stand spoilers one bit. So, when one offhanded comment led to one fell swoop of horrifying realization, a small piece of my dweeb heart went up in flames.

"Wow, Elder Rigby, dramatic much?"

Yup. 

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Onto exhibit number two! I share this with permission.

About two weeks ago, my sister Hazel went up to visit a friend's cabin in northern Arizona. In order to get there she would need to drive part of the three-hour trop along a precarious canyon road by herself, but she felt confident that she could make the trip alright. Hazel made it to the cabin and had a great time there for a few days, then hopped in the Jeep and started back home.

The first leg of the drive was pretty uneventful from what I heard, but when she reached the Salt River Canyon again, something was different. Although she felt no fear driving this road, she received a clear, strong impression that she needed to stop, turn the car around, and drive back to the cabin right that instant. So, though she was probably a little confused and a little embarrassed to see her friends again after she'd already left once, she listened and obeyed.

 Upon reaching the canyon again, this time in a convoy with her friends, the reason for her prompting became starkly clear: a massive collision had occured. Multiple cars, multiple semi trucks, multiple fatalities—just down the road from where she was told to stop, turn the car around, and drive back to the cabin. 
 
 My little sister has made promises with God and she lives them to the fullest. That day, the faithfulness and devotion with which she had walked the path of Christian discipleship enabled her to receive critically important spiritual guidance from He who is our loving Father in Heaven.

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So, what do these two things have to do with each other?

By itself, the first experience was petty suffering. Nothing more, nothing less. It really did stink to have my favorite TV show spoiled, but God let it happen for a reason and that's that. 

 The second experience, though...the Lord used the second experience to grant me the gift of perspective. Through these two events, He taught with clarity what really really matters and what really doesn't. I consider it one of the great blessings of my mission that Christ chose to protect my sister rather than protecting my television. 

Romans 8:28:

"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."

Love,
Elder Rigby

Norma's Baptism



Wednesday, July 17, 2024

Week 55 - Pierce City, Missouri

Hey everyone!


Breaking the routine this week. Here are some miracles right off the bat:

1) Our homeless friend from the park a few weeks ago had completely dropped off the face of the earth after the our one miraculous encounter with her, but guess what? She just moved in with one of our recent converts! What's more, one of our members we went out with the day before got a random prompting to talk to this dude working on a weed whacker and we found out when we met her again that he's her boyfriend!

2) The sister missionaries who used to serve here told us to try again with a friend we dropped a few weeks ago so we visited her and the timing was totally perfect! She was going through some big trials and knew she needed to come back to God again. We reconnected and taught an awesome lesson and just like that she was back on track! 

 She then agreed to pull up to our church tour thirty minutes later as our "special guest speaker" and proceeded to bear a powerful witness to the other friends we were teaching that she knew that God's love was present in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints after the one and only time she attended, but the Spirit told her it was time to come back. 

3) I had just the worst night with my mental a couple of nights ago and I woke up the next morning feeling just as miserable. I had an exchange that day and absolutely dreaded having to spending a whole day helping a younger missionary build his confidence when my own was at rock-bottom, but I said a prayer and did my best to prepare for the day. 

 "But behold...the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance" (1 Nephi 1:20.)

 My deliverance came in the form of the missionary I went on exchanges with. He is humble, ambitious, and blessed with just the biggest heart ever. He is so kind. Plus, we're nerds of a feather. We instantly clicked and my time with him was just the kind of connection I needed to get back on my feet and keep on moving forward.



A question that gets more fun the more you ask it:

"What are the chances?"


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Okay, now the goofy stuff:

- A kid from a part-member family gave me a bunch of Pokémon stuff the very next day after I decided not to quit buying them. The Poké-devil ain't letting me off that easy. 

- Got to drive one of my dream cars, a brand new 2024 Toyota Rav4 hybrid 😻

- Pet a cow. I love Missouri

- Taught mission prep with the sister missionaries and even more youth showed up this time! They're amazing and teaching them is a blast. 

- Song of the week: "Child in a Manger" from the 2022 Church Music Festival


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Thought: "The Virtue of Kindness" by Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin


I couldn't say it better myself, so I'll just borrow Elder Wirthlin's words today:

One way you can measure your value in the kingdom of God is to ask, “How well am I doing in helping others reach their potential? Do I support others in the Church, or do I criticize them?” 

If you are criticizing others, you are weakening the Church. If you are building others, you are building the kingdom of God. As Heavenly Father is kind, we also should be kind to others.

“But,” you ask, “what if people are rude?”

Love them. 

“If they are obnoxious?” 

Love them. 

“But what if they offend? Surely I must do something then?” 

Love them. 

“Wayward?” 

The answer is the same. Be kind. Love them. 

Why? In the scriptures Jude taught, “And of some have compassion, making a difference.”

Love,
Elder Rigby